The Essay
The thing I cannot stop thinking about.
Money, ambition, identity, work, menopause, starting over — told through something real instead of a lecture.
For the Record is an editorial-style newsletter about money, work, menopause, midlife, reinvention, and who the hell you are now — with essays, videos, pictures, links, things I like, useful money thoughts, and whatever else deserves a spot.
I know how quickly an inbox fills up with things that feel like homework. I do not want For the Record to be that.
Yes, I am a money behavior expert. Money will always be part of the conversation. But so will the rest of life: a video I cannot stop thinking about, a recipe worth making, what I am building, a menopause story, something I changed my mind about, a great article, a weird cultural observation, a photo dump, or the thing women are saying privately that deserves to be said out loud.
The goal is simple: you should want to linger in it.
What an issue might look like
There is structure, but it is not precious. Sections can come and go. Some weeks will be essay-heavy. Some will have more pictures or video. Think recurring columns inside a publication, not a rigid newsletter template.
The Essay
Money, ambition, identity, work, menopause, starting over — told through something real instead of a lecture.
Watch This
Bake It Out, something I made, or something someone else made that I need you to see.
Money Shit You Should Know
A money behavior, headline, idea, or shift worth understanding without turning it into homework.
Currently Obsessed
Food. Clothes. Books. Products. Places. A weird little thing that made Tuesday better.
Behind the Scenes
Business experiments, ideas in progress, photos, mistakes, and the stuff that usually gets edited out.
The Point
Somewhere between an essay, a zine, a lifestyle edit, and the smartest group text you are in.
I have spent more than two decades talking about money professionally. The part I care most about now is everything money bumps into: identity, safety, ambition, pleasure, work, bodies, relationships, reinvention, and the version of success we thought we were supposed to want.
Midlife has a way of making all of that louder. For the Record is where I get to follow the interesting thread — wherever it goes.
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